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For those of you who, like me, Asian women dressed, there are some things that help the rocky road to a happy and successful relationship can be. As in any relationship there are ups and downs, good times and difficult times, but these fluctuations appear to be much more dramatic and intense with Asian girls. Sometimes it may feel as though we are the roller coaster. The journey is exciting, passionate and sometimes painful, rewarding and sobering. One thing that canthat is not boring! In this first installment, I examine it, and some of my observations and experiences with beautiful women from Thailand and hopefully help others to visit this exotic and treacherous path.
Ahh, the thrill and excitement of being in Thailand, the climate is hot, hot dishes, and oh my, ladies. It was said that Thai women are more beautiful women in the world. This is of course subjective, and that leads me toMy first and perhaps most important point to meet Thai women or woman for that matter. It 's all subjective, personal and unique. There can be no absolute "understand" the ladies in Thailand. They are all individual, unique and constantly evolving. We discuss some general knowledge about the environment, cultures and common results such as those occurring in the ladies, but we never needed a moment to forget that every woman is different. This can not be stressed enough.Once we begin to generalize and put a person in a box of our ideas is the beginning of the end. We will never deal directly with the other person to do, but limited only by our ideas. While many Thai women have certain things in common, I found very unique individuals and I have to throw away almost everything I thought I had girls learned new ones before the meeting, when a. So please remember this, and help with allYour relationships.
The Family. The first thing to understand about Thai girls is the fierce loyalty and service to give to their families. Thai girls, especially her sister are committed to family care for their parents and in every way possible. As a potential partner, we at this deep connection and commitment must be understood. We are always second, and the family will be the first. If we can understand and accept this, will go a long way in a successful relationship.To highlight this loyalty and the desire to pay their parents and take care of the family, I like a declaration of a friend of mine who works in night life quote. To put it in context, I had an interview and tried to convince them that working a job for less money to keep a factory and stop working in bars. Your reply without a moment's hesitation, was "My body is not for me, my body is not a man, is my body for my mother. I do what I can totake care of my mother. This body is not mine, this body of my mother. "Hearing this, I was floored me. I was new in Thailand and Asia, and I was speechless for all the crazy media hype for the trafficking of girls forced into prostitution. And the man directly experience I know many Thais is that the mothers are often the biggest pimp, send their girls to Bangkok, Phuket, Pattaya and other destinations to earn money. These girls often live cheaply, saving every Bahtcan send home to their mothers. Do not take my word for it, come here and talk to some ladies the same. Anyway, back to the topic at hand, which is of course an extreme example, but illuminates the depth of respect and loyalty, Thai girls for their family, especially his parents. We can only hope that the second best. We will never be a girl number one concern. When it comes to a decision, either for themselves or for their family, you lose every time!Understanding this from the beginning, then we can accept and make the most of it. That said, the best way to deal with this if you are sure to make a commitment to a girl, her family embrace 100%. This is a completely different ball game and is beyond the scope of this article, but can be an adventure, to say the least.
The second point that I feel is necessary to understand is money. Asia is not the West. We often forget this and try to apply Western ideals andPractices in dealing with Asians. Now I'm not talking about prostitutes, bar girls or massage girls here when I say that money was very important for Asian women. The so-called good girls' are after the money. Well, do not worry now. Remember, we can apply our limited Western prejudices, living in Asia. Parents may wish to make their girls to marry a man who has enough money, a man, the care of her and the family. The 'is represented in the ancient Thai tradition of Sinsot 'or what we would call a dowry. E 'often show a representation of the human capacity and provide his wealth or the desire to marry used. I know many cases, the sin sot man was back immediately, or contact land or a house or a joint account owned by both Thai couple or family. Now, before we all too pious, and look down on Asians because they take so materialistic, and we lack only our money, we need a second and thinkaverage English or American girls. Want to marry a rich man, but the way this is not to deal with overt and, in my opinion, not "honest." Thai girls can be very useful as. If we do not, put aside our cultural blinders, you can easily put out and annoyed by the "honesty" is displayed, in this regard. In Asia, there is no wall of separation between sex, dating, marriage and $ $ for money. The girls are raised in this culture to look at these things together, as, without the need to separateout, as in the West. A beautiful girl is likely to be a rich man to find. sexual attraction and market value are seen in terms of money. In Asia, this is not seen as a bad thing, or phrase. We can not judge Asian to mix love and money so easy, if we find happiness here. I prefer to think of it as an honest and open approach. So do not be surprised if your beloved "teerak" decides to leave you because you do not have enough money. Notnecessarily mean that she loves you, only that money and love do not distinguish more clearly here in the West. The second part is to understand this, that Thais view Westerners as rich. We'll get more money and free goods for the same services as the common perception is that we have money, rather than the Thai people. So even if you're like me and do not have much money, will be perceived rich, and expects to pay and helpIt is likely, as has been said that a girl could go if you do not immediately show some ability to generate wealth. I know of cases where the girl was in love with a boy, but here the parents would not allow her to marry him because he had enough money or a job. Back to Rule Number One, of course they will listen and follow Their parents first, and "hip dump 'so to speak" "in Bangkok can be a harsh reality to be here. In this culture we can not waitgood luck to find a good woman, if you have the sexual market value (money were limited). This is the stark reality. Now we all know many Thai boys worthless wife 100% loyal support through the hard work e. Spend their days drinking and gambling and prostitution, does not work, while his wife or girlfriend give him money for work, strange but true. This will not happen with Western men. We farang, foreigners, and be perceived as a farang, be rich, a Thai girlshould cope with a farang boyfriend or husband that he would lose his fortune, so to speak. Farang are often a status symbol for Thai girls and I am proud to take a backward village and show off. View the ATM landed fish are and how to live a good life today. If you do not play this role and have a bit of baht each, so its capabilities are limited and short term. In Thailand, it is expected that the man is ready ($ $) has a girlfriend or wife orhe does not want to be updated. As I said, every girl is unique and different. I had some success here with Thai girls for life, while I was dirt poor. You want to go to eat at times as "noodles in the street" (15-25 baht), with you every day, but this is the exception, not the rule, and I'm sure parents would not agree and daughter would go out with people with more money. It 's the same situation in the West and the world for this, onlyhonestly and in your face 'way of dealing with it.
These two points are the biggies, just to know "list" for dating a Thai girl. There are countless other cultural and perceptual differences that difficult day to day life with your teerak (Darling is), but in my opinion because they are less important and usually does not "show stopper". In fact, many of these differences can be found to be quite nice. Thai Ladies is often close companions mayto meet ever. In this country, the Thai people live like kings in their home. Thai girls are informed, people worry, and trained from an early age to cook and clean, and fold T-shirt and very careful and keep people happy. A few examples I can think of my ex-girlfriends, are things like scissors or a nail popping zit on your back, or massage. I can not imagine how it would be impossible, as the common American Girl and points his finger nails cut to obtainThem, much less pop pimples on your back! I did not say what I want, when a former Thai girl I started to do these things. How many Western women in this generation really cook and clean and take your husband? No, I want a maid, or you must cook for them, or invite them to take to dinner. Not in Thailand, many women have been very worried about me to show that you can cook, and when you visit home will begin, of course, to clean it for you and your foldClothing. I remember a few years ago, walking into the bathroom one morning, every feeling groggy from sleep. I went to the sink and started to reach for my toothbrush and toothpaste noted that already on it! My teerak toothbrush had prepared for me, so when I woke up waiting for me to use. Try to get the common Western feminist bitch girl to do. I dare ya! I will again stand at a safe distance and watch! No, Thai girls are very intelligent, they know thatTo get what they want to be beautiful, feminine, and takes care of their needs Mans.
So I wholeheartedly recommend that girls take the plunge and experience what it's like going out with a good Thai. I would not recommend trying a bargirl in a common faithful woman, when there are so many beautiful girls who are dying to get a good farang man can meet. It is absolutely worth it and anguish, why add more problems, which may have a difficult situation. So, keep yourHi, to check Western ideals and judgments, take a dose of patience and keep an open mind, and I'm sure you will not regret. The journey can be a bit 'bumpy here and there, but worth the price of admission.
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